Activate your motivation – How to change your live?
Start your motivation – recognize the motivating processes, bring on yourself to the readiness, take control of your live and become happy. How to make it? How to change your live?
Planning is framing the future into the frames of present, if you can do something or you are dreaming about making something, just do it. The courage has in and of itself the power of esprit and the best method to predict the future is making the future.
If you at this moment aren’t forming the happy connection, you aren’t going to work with the happiness and desire, everyone and everything is irritating you, you are living with parents, parents-in-law for the another year and you are continuing this connexion even though you are meeting or you know women who you can get to know better, you aren’t delivering your CV and you aren’t setting to the interviews even though in your city is growing the new enterprise zone or you aren’t going to see the new flats even for rent. I am guaranteeing you that you haven’t got strong FOR WHAT YOU SHOULD DO THIS, you have by far WHY YOU SHOULDN’T DO THIS.
We often want to do something because we have strong why… because in the past I haven’t managed in relationships, I haven’t found the work for the six months or the unfair renter has terminated an agreement to my brother.. that’s why is strongly rooted in us, and is causing that we always find the explanation – it’s the motivation but motivation from which I am escaping, the problem is that we often haven’t the motivation to do something.
That’s why you meet a riveting woman or walk alongside the building of the new company or you read the flat announcement – you should consecutively walk over, introduce yourself and talk, move into the office and ask about the interview, call the renter and ask for details – you have more reasons that you shouldn’t do this. I don’t approach because when I approach I will feel the fear, I will turn red, the secretary will offload me or when I finally talk with the boss he will throw my CV to the bin. When I will call to the renter the announcement will be out-dated. So if you feel shortfall, discord and dissatisfaction that’s for sure your subconscious – deep part of you hasn’t strong FOR WHAT you don’t need this. Think about what you really need and find this elementary FOR WHAT YOU NEED THIS.
In conclusion, one more example.. think about this sphere, this area which first come to your mind, you can use my examples – requirement to have a nice partner, the dreamed-of work or where and with whom you would like to live. Answer the question – how many men or women you have met for the last week, half of the year or one year and how many of them haven’t been from the so-called social quarter – they haven’t been friends of our friends. The same question is about your CV and the attempt of meeting the boss of the company.
If you have chosen the area connected with where and how you live or how many telephones you have made or how many flats you have visited personally adequately by the time of last week or last six months… If you have chosen another area wherein you haven’t been feeling well and you would like to change something – think how many attempts you have undertaken in the last seven days or half of the year or one year time.
In case you know the answers let’s use mathematics and notice that for the last year time you will meet the person, go to the company or call and check the announcement – you will have 365 chances to change the situation which you have been living. Doubtless you won’t meet the partner for the rest of live immediately, you won’t get the dreamed-of job, you won’t find the cheap and spacious flat but you have 365 attempts, trials, activities, and that is always more than zero.
You don’t need to be a mathematical genius to see that it’s always more than 5,10 or even 30 or 50 if this high number is the answer for your previous questions. Of course no everyone turn out to be stand with us on the bridal carpet, no every work will satisfy us but if we every single day will do: two attempts, two trials – the chance to change the situation which we are living is raising.
In the end, I have in front of my eyes this image – I think in very clear way, I sum up this what I told you. The image from the transmission of reporters which are relating the situation of the tsunami casualties. This reporter with a microphone has relating the situation of a few thousand of people. He has stayed in the door which was crashed and a woman astern who has cried because she has lost a roof over hers head and indeed in the middle of the room has lain the stack of bricks, the flies have sat at woman but the bricks are still there. If this woman will elevate daily one brick she will be able to help herself – she can manage also with many other things – if only she would like to do something.
Remember – you are deciding about all. It’s high time to do something. Now get up away from the computer. Remember about the motivation for… centre on for what and if we really want to change something in our live. We can plan and consequently aim for those changes it’s peculiar “Art of gaining the objectives”.
August 16, 2015 / admin / 1
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